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A more gentle approach to life through your 20s

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This title sound like something Guruji (from Sacred Games) would say. Soon I will be 30 and I was talking to my dad about my should-haves and shouldn’t-haves through my 20s. I was ranting how my certain beliefs about “success” has lead a stressful and not a fulfilling time during my 20s.                                                                                           From Indiatimes To my surprise he told his view on how most people’s 20s and 30s are the most stressful time in their life. He began to explain how being in your 20s changes you and people around you, such as nobody will necessarily care about your table manners or either you “darshan”ed all the people in a room or not. At this point of life, you will begin to be scrutinized and judged on what you study or work (roughly translated as how much you WILL/DO make ). Since you are at your 20s, you don’t know things better so you start to do things that will avoid you being judged in a “not-so-good-status” way. This eve