love is.......

love is....
"overrated" a friend in our group declared in his intoxicated state. Soon our group divided into two groups, one saying love is overrated and other saying love is no way overrated. They had their points justifying their opinions. Some were bullshit points, some points were justified and some were just the alcohol talk.


love is the state of mind which initiates the emo-chemical bond between the parties involved with an irrational inclination towards each other where the primary objective or maybe the only objective lie in seeing the other counterpart happy (well you will be ultimately happy through induction effect of their happiness) with no expectation of reciprocation or whatsoever.

okay yes, my definition of love sucks. i don't know, i just wanted to write what would i write down if i have to. Nobody knows anything, else we would have got a standard definition of love. Scientific theories changes every year, economist explain why and how things are and the other year they say why they were not how they are. everybody have their opinion on atom,universe,health,sex,economics,finance and everyone is learning. I say this because I need to learn. I want to learn. I want to be a loving person and know how to treat people right and that’s very hard to do.

Love touches everyone. You feel like every possible soft things in universe are touching you when their searching eyes pause at you and smile. You have a ajeeb irrational inclination towards them, you love them, loving them makes you happy, you do it for yourself and you do it for them, you can love them and still love yourself.

I got a list reading on internet where different people says what love is. For them love is:

love is when you feel like loving whoever is around to be loved.
love is the quiet calmness you feel when they are around.
Love is when you have no demands on the other person. Not even to make you happy.
Love is when you care what they do, but don’t worry about what they are doing.
Love is when you miss them, but don’t require them.
love is when they call you to ask how was your day even though they know you have nothing much to tell.
love is when  things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to them.
Love is when you love the other people who love them.
Love is when you’re afraid to lose them, but you don’t try and “keep” them.
Love is when you forgot to tell them something… all the time.
Love is when you can’t sleep and are feeling sick and anxious and its 3am, but you reach out and touch them and now you are feeling a little better.
love is when you find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true joy that’s so real it scares you.
love is that tiny smile that comes to your face when you remember something silly they do.
love is when they give you the best part of the chicken because it is your favorite even though they want it too.
love is when your heart ache and you are sad when you see them sad.
love is when you wish you'd done everything on earth with them.
Love is when they want to do something and you don’t, so you don’t and everyone feels good about it.

for me,love is....wonderful !

If you feel love is overrated then you might not be in love.According to James these are not the things  of what you SHOULD do when you are in love." If you feel “should” then you might not be in love.If you become unhappy, then maybe the love was just a passing love. Don’t fall into the trap of “love” when it is just “want”. You learned from each other and now can move on."

Whenever you think you know something, leave a space inside your brain unoccupied so you can put others opinions in it. love yourself or love others or love others for yourself.Go live what love is....

0hh and as per our group discussion our friend ended up dropping his premika home even though we had warned him she wont talk with him for his bold "overrated" statement, he smiled and said " I love spending time with her anyway."

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  1. "Love is when you’re afraid to lose them, but you don’t try and “keep” them." It is.

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